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Keep moving with this six-minute upper body attack! Want arms that are long & lean, strong & toned? Add this to your cardio (& healthy eating) 2-3x per week
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If you missed the first post, let's bring you up to date: (Otherwise, scroll down:) ) This post is part of a series on breaking down exercises so you can be SAFER and MORE EFFICIENT in your movements. I think it is safe to say that the majority of us begin our fitness journey, not by taking a course on the muscles and functions of the joints and so on, but by joining a fun class or copying what we see in a magazine here and there...yes? I know that was the start for me! I was in a Spin class not knowing anything about form, safety, hydration, or resistance. Just brought a water bottle with me and trusted the instructor when he said "turn the resistance up" and hoped I did it right. Really, though, I did not learn how I should check that my knees are vertical to my heel when setting up the bike nor the proper way to be up out of the saddle...I just copied the instructor best I could. Pilates, too. Why did my neck hurt during class? The instructor says take it your own pace, so that must mean faster is better? Well no one told me otherwise until I was in a course to become an instructor! From then on, I have focused on SAFETY and EFFICIENCY over everything else in my classes. Very challenging classes? Oh yes. But safe, and maximizing every minute. We don't have time to waste as I take forever to show the next exercise, nor do you want to hear me show six variations before you can finally begin. I need to explain quickly, concisely, and clearly to get you started, and then add an array of digestible tips along the way. That is a huge part of my responsibility as an instructor and trainer! But, I know that many times this doesn't happen in classes we find. Or we are on our own, no class or trainer, and trying to copy what we have seen, not necessarily knowing the components. This can lead to slowing us down by creating poor habits and leading to INJURY. Talk about NOT being efficient OR safe! So in this series of posts, I will do my best to break down common exercises, as well as show a number of variations for you to modify, progress, or simply change it up to find the appropriate challenge for you! Please feel free to comment or send me an email with questions. Happy to discuss anything further. Squats: What, How, WhyA basic squat is shown in the beginning of the video below. To simplify, a squat can be thought of as 'sit in a chair and stand back up'. (Properly. of course...I'll get there in a sec.) In the video, you see that my feet are about hip or shoulder width apart, I sit back, sending the hips and butt back towards the wall behind me, while making sure that my knees stay behind my toes while doing this (yes there is a variation where the knees can be forward more, but that is an advanced variation to utilize only sometimes, and I won't get into all that here, not needed!). I think to myself, 'butt back' and 'weight in my heels'. A good test is, at the bottom of the motion (the lowest point), see if you can lift your toes. If you can, chances are strong you have your weight in the proper place from the hips down. The upper body: you want to engage your core while doing this exercise, so think about contracting through the abs and keeping your back long (aka straight back not rounded back). Neck also in alignment, aka no chins lifting toward the ceiling. NB: This post keeps the exercises to bodyweight only, but there are plenty of variations utilizing weights, too! As you stand back up, give a squeeze to your glutes (butt muscles) while moving. The glutes want to get a workout here, so make sure they do! The quads aren't the only ones that should be working, ensure the back of the legs and glutes are as well, and a very helpful way, in addition to making sure your form is on point with each rep, is to engage the glutes as you go to stand back up. Now after all these details, are you breathing? Mhmm, we MUST breathe. No holding your breath allowed around me (virtual or otherwise)! We do squats to work our quads (thighs), hips, glutes (butt), hamstrings, calves, and core. If you are just starting out, stick with this motion. If you are struggling to get the sense of getting your hips back far enough for the knees to stay behind the toes, work on sitting back onto an actual chair. Then when you go to stand up, do not push your knees forward as you do-- Instead, squeeze the butt, hinge forward slightly (straight back as you move the chest a bit forward), and stand. ^If you have been working out for some time but are finding your knees aggravate you or you aren't sure of form, do this version, too! The first video continues to show variations, the second one adding in advanced variations. Many work the same muscles, they are just of varying difficulties-- or in some, the same difficulty, just keeping things interesting for you. Standing wider vs standing narrower will have the muscles working in slightly different ways, so it is important to play with different widths (not TOO wide or narrow-- hips to just outside the shoulders). The one that is quite a bit different: In the plie (plee-ae) or sumo squat, my feet are turned out, and my back is completely vertical. As I bend at the knees, I make sure my knees press back to stay over the heels. So nice hinging forward or sticking the butt back. But, we do squeeze the butt as we stand up. In addition to the muscles worked in a 'regular' squat, you'll be giving extra emphasis to inner thighs and the hip region here. If you are very tight in the hips and inner thighs, this may be especially challenging. If you are unable to keep a strong form, skip this variation. There are other ways to work the lower body! Keeping these explanations in as much a vernacular as possible, but it is a lot of info! Again, holler with questions or send me videos of you practicing your squats with a big smile of pride! Have a great day, Kate Everything at your own risk. Not all exercises are suitable for everyone. Exercise can be dangerous and can result in personal injury. Any injury sustained from this video or others is solely the responsibility of the exerciser. Kate Cherichello disclaims any liability from injury sustained from the use of posted videos and exercises. It is recommended to consult a physician before beginning any training program. This is the start of a series on breaking down exercises so you can be SAFER and MORE EFFICIENT in your movements. I think it is safe to say that the majority of us begin our fitness journey, not by taking a course on the muscles and functions of the joints and so on, but by joining a fun class or copying what we see in a magazine here and there...yes? I know that was the start for me! I was in a Spin class not knowing anything about form, safety, hydration, or resistance. Just brought a water bottle with me and trusted the instructor when he said "turn the resistance up" and hoped I did it right. Really, though, I did not learn how I should check that my knees are vertical to my heel when setting up the bike nor the proper way to be up out of the saddle...I just copied the instructor best I could. Pilates, too. Why did my neck hurt during class? The instructor says take it your own pace, so that must mean faster is better? Well no one told me otherwise until I was in a course to become an instructor! From then on, I have focused on SAFETY and EFFICIENCY over everything else in my classes. Very challenging classes? Oh yes. But safe, and maximizing every minute. We don't have time to waste as I take forever to show the next exercise, nor do you want to hear me show six variations before you can finally begin. I need to explain quickly, concisely, and clearly to get you started, and then add an array of digestible tips along the way. That is a huge part of my responsibility as an instructor and trainer! But, I know that many times this doesn't happen in classes we find. Or we are on our own, no class or trainer, and trying to copy what we have seen, not necessarily knowing the components. This can lead to slowing us down by creating poor habits and leading to INJURY. Talk about NOT being efficient OR safe! So in this series of posts, I will do my best to break down common exercises, as well as show a number of variations for you to modify, progress, or simply change it up to find the appropriate challenge for you! Please feel free to comment or send me an email with questions. Happy to discuss anything further. Starting here with LUNGES. Before I go further, though, I must state-- One, I am going through the most common forms and most common instructions. There are indeed variations on these, and advanced athletes may do versions that may not look 'normal' that are still safe. For our purposes, though, there is no need to try a version that could result in injury, especially without a proper trainer at your side. Two, the standard disclaimer: I am not a doctor, and anything you try from these posts are at your own risk. I am sharing my experiences, but each person is recommended to consult with someone in person when they can. If something doesn't feel right, figure out why. Okay, here we go: What do lunges work? See the image below. I love this one, as it shows both the ACTIVE MUSCLES as well as the muscles that are the STABILIZERS. The active muscles are the ones normally pointed out when summarizing the benefits of the lunge-- in vernacular, the quads (this includes what we refer to as the hip flexors as well), the hamstrings, the core.  From: The Body Shop Gym What is the proper form for a basic lunge? -vertical spine -big step back with Right leg, keep Right foot from turning in or out as you dig the ball of the foot into the ground, heel high (be gentle when you step the foot back, no slamming into those toes!) -lower Right knee toward the ground, Keeping Left knee BEHIND Left toes -squeeze in the glutes and a tuck of the abs as you straighten the Right leg -repeat, lowering down and lifting up like an elevator (down and up, not forward and back) (NB: there is a version where the spine if hinged forward slightly, but the above is what I want you to focus on for 99 out of 100 times you'd be presented with a lunge variation.) In the video, I explain the LUNGE and give variations-- and no, I don't sound that sweet when leading a HIIT class, so enjoy it now ;-) Again, holler with questions or send me videos of you practicing lunges with a bit smile of pride! Have a great day, Kate Everything at your own risk. Not all exercises are suitable for everyone. Exercise can be dangerous and can result in personal injury. Any injury sustained from this video or others is solely the responsibility of the exerciser. Kate Cherichello disclaims any liability from injury sustained from the use of posted videos and exercises. It is recommended to consult a physician before beginning any training program.  Not my usual post, but, like this one on virtual classes, felt it an important one.
We are all busy. Overworked, overwhelmed, all the things. Getting your health goals on track can add to the stressors. But isn’t getting healthier supposed to coincide with less stress?? Yes. It is. So why does it sometimes not feel that way? Without getting into the part we all already know-- our own self battling as though there were an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other just trying to convince us of whether or not we should get off the couch-- there are stressors in not feeling like you are maximizing the time you are giving yourself to workout, stressors in not seeing results, stressors in feeling like you are hurting rather than helping your body, stressors in trying to figure out just what the heck you should do to begin with… It doesn’t have to be like that, and that is a huge benefit of utilizing a personal trainer. With a trainer, you have a coach in your corner helping you along the way. Do pro athletes dive into games on their own? No way. There are coaches and medical staff there to guide them along every step of the journey. Top executives in corporations hire coaches to help them better utilize time and decrease stress. Broadway dancers are amazing, but they have choreographers, dance captains, and physical therapists helping them fine tune, keeping a watch on their health, and making sure they are doing everything ‘right’. See where I am going with this? We don’t have to do this on our own, and in all sorts of industries and subject matters people have coaches and trainers, no matter their level. So instead of trying to figure out everything regarding your health and fitness on your own, you have an opportunity to ‘team up’ with a certified personal trainer whose purpose is to guide, educate, and motivate you, while keeping your overall health and goals in mind every moment. (NB: I am focusing on personal training here, but sometimes what a person needs most is a nutritionist, a therapist, or other medical professional.) Now take a deep breath, really deep....and let it out. Feel a bit better with the thought that you don’t have to try to become an expert on working out in your nonexistent spare time? Good :) Personal training is an investment, I know. But I would like you to think about the big picture: If you have a reputable, dedicated trainer, he or she will work with you to build a strong fitness foundation (or to build upon former knowledge), educate you on how to maximum your time efficiency while prioritizing safety over everything else, and set you on a course of success-- not just for this year, but with fundamentals that you can put into practice for your whole life. Who doesn’t want to be able to go out dancing when they are 85?? The best investment you can make is in yourself. You have a plethora of options in front of you for exercise at any given time: from classes to YouTube videos to whatever you recall from that one time you took an aerobics class in 1999. What makes having a personal trainer such a stronger option, however, is one, having your whole fitness program in mind at all times, two, safety, and three, meeting you where YOU are and going from there. A personal trainer notes if you have been working a muscle group too hard and may be breaking down the muscle too much. He or she will identify if you are missing a muscle group. In a class, an instructor may not know what you are doing outside that class nor notice if you are doing something wrong because either there are too many people in class to catch it or the instructor is not certified to pick out these details (the certifications for personal training and group fitness are both great, provided the program is indeed reputable, but they are different). While he or she is probably giving an awesome class, if you are not very sure of your own form and background, a lot can get missed in a class. A personal trainer will be focused just on you, and one worth their salt will ensure that every part of your body is working in the most healthful way possible. While classes may be cheaper, and some videos may be free, not having someone caring about your overall program and not having someone watching for safety and efficiency, you end up spending more in the long-term and seeing less results (wasting time, feeling confused at what to do when, potential short- or long-term injury, not having consistency...) I love classes and absolutely believe they are a great addition to a fitness program-- but it is important to have a base first, as well as noting how the class plays into your overarching health goals. Also, read this before taking virtual classes. Doing what you know or what you read in a magazine can also be beneficial, but not if your form is not keeping you safe and/or you are not keeping an eye on how each additional exercise plays into your overall goals. “Do rows to tone your back.” Well that is all you are doing, you will be unbalanced and without noting cardio and nutrition may lose no weight to then let those back muscles show through. See what I mean with honing in on only one or two things you read? A personal trainer with a strong background of both experience and credentials will shape your overall health. You want to be your best self, right? Don’t waste time, keep yourself safe, and reach your goals working with someone reputable in your corner. There are reputable out there, and it is your job to vet them. If you want to talk more about this in any way, reach out. Walking clears my mind and brings an element of calm. So let's have a walking episode this week as I take you through my hometown, sharing good news along the way! Where are my readers from? Do you get to visit your hometowns? What do you like most about where you grew up?
Start the day with a success. If I get a run in in the morning, then my worries about the rest of the day go down such a great deal. It is like my brain says, “We just did this big accomplishment! Whatever else we get done are cherries on top.” And you know what? So much MORE gets done! Physical and psychological reasons here, if you want to break it down. Physically, moving is getting the muscles warmed up, blood pumping through my body, giving my brain extra help in ‘waking up’ so to speak. Endorphins are increasing, aka the happy hormone, making me feel good all around. Being outdoors is therapeutic, both physically, vitamin D, and psychologically, nature is known to reduce stress. “endorphin
Imagine a different scenario….Wake up, still in pajamas, groggily open the emails and see one hundred problems that need solving and where do I start?? Start the day with a success, and it will set you on the right path for the rest of the day. Bonus if that success involves getting your brain and body WOKEN UP. Additionally, by beginning your day with a task that involves more effort than just sitting on your couch or diving right into work, you are sending a multitude of positive signals to your brain. You are saying, YES WE CAN. We accomplished this, now we’re ready for what’s next. And a physically involved task is getting that body warm and woken up, as well as the brain. If you ‘google’ this topic, there are thousands of results touting the benefits. What are some similar accomplishments for you? Taking a walk? A yoga class? Writing outside (no screen, pen & paper!)? Ten minutes of dancing around to your favorite songs? Something beneficial for your brain and body, that ‘gets things going’ for the day. Here’s to tomorrow! Kate  Viewer submissions highlighted this week (and I ALWAYS love getting good news, so feel free to share anytime!) COVID survivors, vaccine hope, a father fighting ALS, Bill Nye, & more... Just continuing in the sharing of happy things. Look for the good :)  Yesterday, I took Jeff's CitiBike key and set off on an adventure around Manhattan. Have I been going a bit stir crazy (is that the way to describe it?) here in Midtown? Yes. I have to admit it. So grateful for everything we have, but it''s okay to still admit a bit of an antsy feeling after remaining in an apartment or within a ten block walk radius for so long :) I was on a mission yesterday to get to the Union Square Greenmarket, and find some goodies...namely flowers....while supporting small, local businesses instead of a big grocery store chain. Me + bike + Manhattan streets = NO, so I decided to go along the perimeter of the city, on the bike path, down the west side, around the tip, and up the east side, only biking on a few streets as I moved across East Something-or-other Street to get a bit closer to the market before docking. Well it almost worked. I got off the bike path a bit too early and ended up having quite the tour of the Lower East Side. Streets I had never heard of, seeing a completely different part of the city, thankful for not much traffic as I tried to navigate the streets.... Eventually I got to Union Square!   And wow the market was hopping. I didn't expect so many vendors to be there during covid, but they were-- and doing a good job of enforcing distancing, signs for customers not to touch the items, and contactless pay. Good job! I found some apple cider donuts for Jeff from a local NY farm, blueberries from Milford, NJ (minutes from my parents!), and a beautiful hand-picked bouquet of flowers from another NJ farm.  Always loved seeing people on those cute old-fashioned-looking bikes with flowers bursting out of the bike basket. I attempted to recreate....Maybe not as cute with a CitiBike, but a success nonetheless! Why am I writing all of this to you today? To ask you a question: What are you doing to bring a bit of sunshine into your life today? For me, that rather 'small' change of pace and finding locally grown flowers brought me such JOY. It doesn't have to be a 'big' change/purchase/adventure/etc. Something as simple as a bouquet of flowers made me smile, brightened my day, and continues to give me a dose of happy each time I look at it. It's the little things. What are some ways you find sunshine in your day?  Some (More) Good News Episode 8 How has it been eight weeks already?! This week's episode: Rapid Fire Good! How much good news can I fit into 5 min?? Just continuing in the sharing of happy things. Look for the good :) Take a pause to smile: Hamilton, nonprofits, awesome dads, & more! (“5 ish minutes” became “10 ish minutes”....consider yourself happier because of it?!) Just continuing in the sharing of happy things. Look for the good :) Sources: Created & edited by Kate Cherichello John Krasinski's Some Good News for inspiration Disney+, Hamilton https://twitter.com/ArianaDeBose/status/1279836108512202753?s=20 https://twitter.com/SashaHutchings/status/1279209649976328192?s=20 https://twitter.com/leslieodomjr/status/1279225443757903873?s=20 https://twitter.com/Achapphawk/status/1279191862776074240?s=20 Gothamist: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CCJ_58HlRAd/?igshid=1dmz651ezxkw5 Madeyousmile: https://twitter.com/Thund3rB0lt/status/1279288088712232960 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYF4IY7JMp4 Extra excited for this week's episode, as you'll be hearing from some very special guests! Here's to good news... Sources: Created & edited by Kate Cherichello John Krasinski's Some Good News for inspiration Deanna Giuletti The Cantilina Family Lisa Redington Hunter Chadeayne & Kendall Barbera Wake up! Faster (& healthier) than coffee, get that blood flowing in just a few minutes. Open the body, stretch the muscles, warm it all up...and in just seven minutes you are ready to start the day. Part Pilates, part yoga, and fully breathing, this is the series I count on to wake up my muscles and brain first thing. Let me know how it goes! And if you have any questions, send them my way. Making positive changes in our world, no matter the size. Every bit counts. From changing the image of black fathers, to fighting for Juneteenth to be named an official holiday, to two best friends opening the doors for conversations on race in their front yards, and more... Just continuing in the sharing of happy things. Look for the good :) Sources:
Created & edited by Kate Cherichello John Krasinski's Some Good News for inspiration https://www.cbsnews.com/news/brad-paisely-have-a-beer-friends-rochester-new-york/ https://twitter.com/Goodable https://www.vogue.com/article/malala-yousafzai-nobel-peace-prize-winner-graduates-from-oxford Twitter.com -> Malala https://www.nytimes.com/2020/06/18/style/opal-lee-juneteenth.html?smid=tw-nytimes&smtyp=cur https://www.cbsnews.com/news/the-dad-gang-on-a-mission-to-change-views-of-black-fatherhood/ https://twitter.com/Goodable/status/1275076118689677312?s=20 5(ish) minutes to start your day being reminded of the good in the world. A few of the thoughtful & positive moments from the week. Dogs helping find COVID cases, Supreme Court long-overdue ruling, 67th wedding anniversary, and more....☀️ Just continuing in the sharing of happy things. Look for the good :) 🙂 Sources: John Krasinski's Some Good News for inspiration https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti... NextDraft from Dave Pell https://www.technologyreview.com/2020... ️https://t.co/YG6l1CFvFo https://twitter.com/Goodable/status/1... ️https://t.co/tt0S3btodL  Jeff fell in love with a smoothie bowl at a local place a few months ago. While we love giving small businesses help, it was turning into an expensive habit. What it is? Essentially a thick smoothie with toppings, eaten with a spoon, that costs $11-13 out...and I made in five minutes with ingredients we already had. You can throw in pretty much anything you have in and make something yummy happen. If you want low cal high protein, easy. High cal, carb, and protein for building muscle and/or making a full meal out of it, easy. What follows is what I put in the pictured smoothie bowl-- which can of course be made into a drink as well, more on that below-- and then some more ideas of using what you may have in the kitchen already or can pick up via online or at the store. What I put in this one--
...I think that is it…? The next one I made was similar, but I added --
On both, I topped with a, I’ll call it, ‘lazy granola’ mix. I took almonds (I smashed them to make smaller but you can do what you’d like), oats, and coconut oil, put them in a pan on the stove while I put everything else together. Stirred every so often, and then dropped the mixture on top of the bowl. Nice crunch! For me, I like to try to make the lowest calorie option with the highest protein kick (that’s just my prerogative), so mine looked like this:
And then, as I wanted to drink this one rather than eat it in a bowl, I added a bit of water to liquefy it more than Jeff’s versions. Bowl- less liquid added, Drink- more liquid added. Blend, and voila. Just top with granola, coconut flakes, cinnamon, whatever you’d like.  There are a lot of ingredients listed above, I know! Do you have to make it that complex? Absolutely not! Can you still make a delicious smoothie or smoothie bowl with minimal ingredients? Yes! You can make it as ingredient-complex as you want. The key things are: -have something to make it sweet-- for me, that’s banana, blueberry, pineapple, apple, and/or mango. -have a source of protein. For me, that’s either a plain collagen or pea protein, which then makes the above sweet adds more important, or the new Clean Lean one, which is flavored enough that you can honestly just mix with milk and go. And, -a dash of fat. Perhaps more if you either a, need this as a meal substitute, or b, have an overall lower intake of fats and could use the extra, then add some or some more of the following--- as much or as little as you need/want:
You can see in Jeff's, to increase carb intake for him, I used more banana and also added oats. Always be conscious of portions, but this is not a ‘one cup of this and a tablespoon of that’ type of creation. Once you have enough of an idea of what a serving is, or how many calories approximately are in that handful/spoonful, you are good to go-- and this becomes a fast and uber-nutrient-rich snack or meal. It is definitely worth taking the time if you are new to these foods and/or reading a nutrition label to learn these elements of what you are putting into your smoothie bowl. (I feel this will be a blog post on its own eventually! In the meantime, if you need some pointers, holler.) Jeff’s and my smoothie bowls can sit next to each other and look similar, but are often the difference of about 400 calories. That’s a big difference-- something to take note when you are creating yours. What does your body need today? It may seem overwhelming, but trust me, small bits of knowledge really add up FAST here! Check out some of these supplies on your next grocery trip. Most of these don’t spoil anytime soon (freeze the fruits and veggies!). Stock up so you are ready to go when you need something quick or on-the-go! Have some smoothie bowls or smoothie drinks that are your favorites? Let me know! Better yet, send a photo, and I’ll share it here! Kate    5(ish) minutes to start, or end, your day being reminded of the good in the world. A few of the thoughtful & positive moments from protests, a dad helping kids with dads, & more. Hope it brings a smile :)🙂 Kate Cherichello With help from: SOURCES John Krasinski's Some Good News https://t.co/wUh1GcnBMq https://twitter.com/CNN/status/126927... https://t.co/ErL9NUyeoe https://twitter.com/cjdctv/status/126... https://twitter.com/Goodable/status/1... https://twitter.com/CamdenCountyPD/st... https://abcnews.go.com/US/police-offi... https://mynorthwest.com/1907504/belle... https://www.cnn.com/videos/us/2020/06... https://people.com/home/this-dad-crea... www.fitbit.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lYSK... Some Good News, Week 2 Saying there is a lot going on right now is an understatement. Whether seeing it first-hand or on the news, we know we need to make some major changes in our country. What are some words at the heart of what needs to happen? LOVE ACCEPTANCE UNDERSTANDING LISTENING EDUCATION Did I mention LOVE? In sharing the below segment, I am not ignoring the issues happening. But with all the frustrations and anger, it is also good to give yourself moments to look to the happy things still happening around us. So here's a five(ish) minute reminder of the good that can happen when we keep LOVE and the other above values at the heart of our actions. Okay, okay, I know this category is 'Health in a Sec', and yes, I also know this is more than a 'sec' BUT hear me out-- Just start. Maybe you will do five minutes. Maybe ten. Maybe you will get on a roll and before you know it you've completed the whole video. I don't know. But just do SOMETHING, right?! You got this. Give yourself some time today to help your body and mind....breathe, strengthen, stretch. :) While moving at a quick pace, I focus on time efficiency and safe form through this PILATES MAT class. It is taught for all levels-- I will perform at an advanced pace and with advanced exercises involved, but I offer modifications for all levels throughout. For more beginner participants, please pause as often as needed to maintain form and not grip with extra muscles. Feel free to reach out with questions! Originally created for Facebook Live broadcast 4.21.2020. Everything at your own risk. Not all exercises are suitable for everyone. Exercise can be dangerous and can result in personal injury. Any injury sustained from this video or others is solely the responsibility of the exerciser. Kate Cherichello disclaims any liability from injury sustained from the use of posted videos and exercises. It is recommended to consult a physician before beginning any training program.
Anyone else sad when John Krasinski told us there were to be no more episodes of Some Good News to look forward to this year? John's SGN may be gone for now, but good news doesn't have to stop....so just wanted to continue to share positive news... Hope it brings a smile :)  "The best way out is always through." -Robert Frost How many situations does Robert Frost's thought apply? I'll let you answer that on your own :) Right now, it is glaringly real that COVID is here in full and we cannot escape it. It hit and continues to hit areas across the globe. When I read the above quote, somehow I immediately take a big breath. Yes. That is the only way out of this. Why does that feel like a tiny dose of relief? We still have the same problems as before that breath. Still the same fear and confusion. I don't know, it just gives a bit of an answer, such a simple one at that, and only a tiny piece of a gigantic puzzle, but it says, hey look, you can't go back. You can't just sit still. You can't even go sideways. You have to see what is right in front of you and keep moving forward. Life does not stop for us. We may be confined to home, but we are still moving forward. We can't run from the issues. They will find us wherever we run. We have to go through them to get them behind us. And behind us they WILL get. We are surrounded by COVID cases, unknown information, false information.... We can do our absolute best to protect ourselves from it, but we can't fully hide, because the virus could find us anywhere. But we will get past this. And the only way out is through. So we buckle down, focus as best we can each day to be grateful for what we have, to take care of ourselves and family, and to be aware of what needs to get done to continue to put one foot in front of the other. If you are an essential worker, then the extent of that to-do list outside of work may be to shower, eat, and get a bit of exercise or a nap. That is enough. You are getting through. Perhaps you are unemployed and have goals you are working toward, and you are taking one step at a time in the right direction to get to them. Awesome. Keep moving forward. Step by little-or-big step. You are getting through: both through this time in our lives, and through the challenges to reach your goals. Perhaps you are taking care of a child 24/7, but you are remembering to breathe, drink water, eat, care for yourself even just a little bit. Great. You are getting through: both through this time in our lives, and through raising a child. The list goes on! Do what you need to do each day- tears may ensue, screaming may happen, meltdowns may occur. It's okay. What IS this insane time we are all experiencing right now?? But, we are waking up each day, taking stock of the good things in our lives, and seeing how we can take those steps in the right direction each day. Getting through. You're doing great. Take a deep breath, and here's to finding some bright spots in today, Kate Like having a weekly goal to focus on to help in moving forward? |
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